Free Ebook: Unleashing The Diva: The Fierce Simple Guide To Confidence

12/6/2015

I had a great team meeting not too long ago about what gift I could give to my incredible fans, family and friends! As an early Christmas present, I am releasing a FREE mini-ebook inspired from Paul's Advice On All Things Life. I want each of you to end, and to start your year with the confidence you deserve! Thank you to my team for the cover, editing, and doing the book details- Paul xo

Book Details:

Unleashing The Diva: The Fierce Simple Guide To Confidence is a free self-help guide by rising author/best-selling poet, Paul Travis. Inspired from his advice blog, Paul's Advice On All Things Life, he created a 7 rule guide and picked a total of 40 questions for each rule that fans sent in (5 questions per rule). The diva himself is giving this gift for free because of the tremendous amount of support, and love he receives from fans. He is a pistol, sassy, show-stopping, a lioness, outspoken, and full of life. If I were to listen to anyone about confidence, it would be this guy.

Tracy Marie

12/6/2015 01:54:03 pm

Shawn Toovey

12/7/2015 08:15:20 am

greetings, diva master! I had a question 4 u…

My man and I have been seeing each other 4 about 2.5 years and I feel like he’s been cheating on me…or at lest getting borred with me. We rarely make love no more, he’s always texting ppl I don’t know, hiding his phone screen when he gets a text, lying about stuff, chatting online on FB, going outside to talk on the phone, and taking pics of himself to send to strangers. Worst of all, this is going to sound weird, but I noticed hes been shaving his private area religeiously when he never did before. Do you think hes seeing someone else behind me back?

What’s a diva to do?? I knew youd be the one 2 ask thank a lot I appreciate you and love ur work!

Paul Travis

12/7/2015 09:20:21 am

Thanks for saying you appreciate my work, and me. First, and foremost, I appreciate you as well! What ties do you guys have together? And retrace the steps to when you began to feel as if you aren't feeling the love you deserve. Age also plays a role, your partner could be going through some sort of mid-life crisis. Where'd y'all meet, etc. I would be straight forward and say you're crazy if you think I'm stupid, but I don't think that is the right thing to do. I definitely would ask. It also depends on him. I wouldn't put up with that secret stuff. A diva isn't afraid to stand their grounds, but when it comes to love, especially if you love someone it could be a tricky battle. I need a bit more information to properly give you a more validating response. My intuition needs to hear you're side. Have you been hurt before? Cheated on? Is this you're longest relationship? But, the signs you have mentioned especially about the pics and talking would send me to a diva fit, but my man knows better.

12/7/2015 09:34:18 am

My phone automatically does "you're" for some reason lol! Sorry for the typos.

12/10/2015 03:16:55 pm

Thanx 4 getting back to me, sweetie, I appreciate it!

To answer all ur questions…

1. We’ve been together 2.5 years & and very close. I consider his family 2 be my family, and visca versa. We live together at his house. He makes a lot of $ and essentially provides for me.

2. He’s 38 and im 27.

3. Used to be madly in love, but like I said he’s really been secretive lately.

4. Funny u mention where we met…I first met my man on a roller coaster at Six Flags in NJ. Crazy, I know, but i think we were meant to be.

5. I think it all started when I caught him looking at porn a few months back. It’s embaressing to admit, but Im a very jealous person, so I assaulted him and the cops were called by our nosy neighbors. We broke up for a few weeks, but we forgave each other and he dropped the assault charges so I didn’t go to jail for hurting him. Now he started the whole texting random people bullshit and I just know that I’m going to “Diva Out” on him again if I find out he’s been messing around again. Maybe ur right, I should just ask him. Any advice on how to go about that?

Thanks again for your time its great 2 hear advice from a real diva!

12/11/2015 08:58:05 am

Of course! I always make sure to write back my readers. Y'all are very important to me.

1. Jealously is in every diva- we love all eyes on us, attention, and support, and if we don't get it we tend to allow that feeling to take over. We can go from the classy one on the red carpet and switch in a millisecond to a real housewife reunion. I use to have that problem, but I had to fix it for myself. I had very bad trust issues from dating a bunch of no good men. The feeling of being jealous can cause a very foggy mind, which can tend many moments to where we over think and over see things far worst then being what they are.

2. Men are very simple thinkers. Unlike us. We may be men, but we have very feminine emotions. Especially since he provides to you in someway he wouldn't waste the time on any else. As a human being porn is normal to look at, but we sleeps next to you every night. Loves you, and your family for you who are. That is saying a lot.

3. Be sweet when you ask. Allow your diva vulnerability to take over (those pucker lips that get us what we want always) Write him a heartfelt letter if you feel your mouth will get the best of you when you ask. Writing your heart on a letter and leaving it for him will touch him far deeper because it is something you never done. Don't blame, just share your feelings about how much you love, care and appreciate him. And then admit to him that I maybe over thinking but I noticed a few changes, and I hope you wouldn't break my heart, but please be honest because I would love to work through my issues. Do you get what I mean?

4. I see you're using a lot passive words in your statement; used to, we were- are you allowing yourself to drift? Because it seems to be that you both are still in love. So switch those passive words to active such as we are. That's a cute story about how you both met!

And, again no problem! I wish you the best, and of course all the blessings to fix your problem .

12/11/2015 09:00:07 am

I had a few typos. "He sleeps next to you" and "time on anyone else" - these typos drive me nuts! LOL :)

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